The other day I was picking my daughter up at her college – which will go unnamed for now – and I looked around at the other kids. As a man literally old enough to be the father of ANY of these kids I could not help but notice the little girls running around in barely enough to cover their vital parts. I looked at my daughter and wanted to throw a blanket over her, but I restrained myself. Fathers are not supposed to lose their cool every time their over-eighteen daughter turns heads.
And then I became acutely aware of something else. There was something missing from the days when I was in school. The little girls were out there showing off their bodies, but… where were the guys? Oh, there were boys running around, at least I think they were boys, but mostly they looked like male versions of the females. It was just difficult to tell which ones were boys. Being a ‘problem solver’ by nature I quickly improvised a system of looking for something that looks like facial hair or unshaved legs, but the system was far from perfect – I was wrong about a third of the time. That’s not a good percentage if I was in a bar looking for love. The guys were missing the swagger, boldness and just plain bulk of the guys I grew up with. From what I saw, it looked like we have succeeded in creating a unisexual society where men and women are indistinguishable. The horror of it all!!
On the way home I asked my daughter, as calmly as I could manage, if it was just that my random sample was narrow – since it was only the whole campus – or if she thought it was the case, too. She said that has been the case since she was a little girl. Boys have been taught to be sensitive, in touch with their feelings, less competitive, less aggressive and willing to work toward resolving conflicts rather than fighting for their beliefs, competing, learning to be men… This discussion ran on for well over an hour, but the bottom line is we have a generation of boys who are… cream puffs.
I got a little lesson in what has been going on in schools for the last thirty or so years as we drove. While I was off working on a career the kids were off being indoctrinated in Feminist hate-propaganda teachers decided was the mantra they were going to use to build up girls while tearing down the boys. Those teaching and administering the schools designed a curriculum to make girls more assertive and less the ‘femme fatale,’ and in the process they weakened the boys into wimps. My daughter told me it probably started out innocently enough in trying to bring the girls out of ‘second-class citizen’ mentality while teaching the boys to respect women, but along the way someone realized that strengthening the girls was not enough, the only way to protect them from the larger males of the species is to make the men much less aggressive – make them into a generation of eunuchs. The solution these teachers came up with was to make the men more ‘touchy-feely.’
The result of their grand experiment is another disaster of ‘unintended consequences.’ That seems to be the cornerstone of that group of ‘do-gooder schoolmarms.’ Never look at their results, only look at their ‘good intentions.’ Yet, their strategy comes in segments. At the same time they were trying to make girls stronger and boys weaker they were making sex an everyday event. I have no idea how that fits with their ‘respect’ scenario, but I’ll bet they could talk themselves into all kinds of circles trying to explain it. Kids can now get their condoms for free from the nurse’s office or from the bowl in the counselor’s office. Talk about mixed messages. While they are trying to teach boys about respect for women they are cheapening relationships by giving them condoms to have as much sex as they want. That message to the kids is: Have at it and have fun!!! But remember, if the girl says no it’s no, but since we know she’s going to say yes, wear a condom. What??
My personal theory is that we lost the boys when they no longer had to ‘man up’ and go into a pharmacy to buy condoms. It was a rite of passage for men to go get the condoms under the gaze of the pharmacist, their neighbors and sometimes their family. It was an uncomfortable few minutes for any guy, but learning to ‘man up’ and ‘suck it up’ was an experience all boys should have to endure. By robbing the kids of experiences it does not prepare them for life – in much the same way helping a butterfly get out of a cocoon will destroy their ability to fly. The act of freeing themselves strengthens them to where they can fly – and boys need to be able to face up to the world that is about to hit them in the face like a runaway train. Protecting boys from experiences makes them weaker – and ultimately weaker citizens.
Our boys in that generation are carbon copies of the weak male characters of the sitcoms the boys watched. For a generation our television shows have had male characters that were always wrong, weak and a mess – with the female characters being the smart, strong examples that are always the ones who nag the men into line. Now what we have are kids who are confused about their roles in society and are going to be weaker in the end. I have this mental image of cowering men sitting on the roof of their homes waiting for someone to come rescue them as waters rise around them, but since all the men are cowering on the roof no one is coming to get them… well, except for the strong women who will protect their weak little men.
The reality is that not all the boys of that generation could be brainwashed and not all are wimps. I’m sure MY generation seemed like wimps to my father’s generation as we were growing up, too, but we grew into our roles as men. I hope this current generation will find their way as well. Our military kids from that generation are a shining example of those who were able to survive the ‘KGB-Gulag Style’ treatment. Yet, those boys who have gone on to populate our universities and colleges are shining examples of the success the teachers are having brainwashing our kids – and what we have to look forward to as these guys get older and start to step into positions of power and responsibility.
Over the last few decades the percentage of boys who have gone on to college has dropped dramatically. Many of the boys see what the teachers are pushing and decide they can do better without the whining drivel. Yet, those pushing that agenda continue on in our schools, movies, media and anywhere else they think they can use their position to influence thoughts.
Americans deserve better.